Planning ahead is key: how to approach the ‘aged care conversation’
We all want to stay at home as we age – but for some older Australians, there may come a time where there is a need for higher-level care and support.
The move to residential aged care often comes about suddenly after an illness or accident and this can be a stressful and emotional experience for both the individual and their family.
The key to avoiding this kind of situation is to plan ahead – and have that important conversation about aged care options well before they are needed.
Associate Professor Lee-Fay Low, a University of Sydney psychologist, epidemiologist, and researcher specialising in developing and evaluating interventions for older people, said there were four things that families should consider if their loved one is starting to struggle to live independently at home.
Associate Professor Lee-Fay Low
“The first step is realising and accepting that, perhaps, a little bit more help and support is needed,” Prof Low said.
At-home services that help loved ones stay independent, such as cleaning or installing safety rails, were among the first steps.
The second step is to have a discussion about the future, including the possibility of moving into residential aged care.
“The third step, if you really have to go into a nursing home, is to do your research on the nursing homes and take Mum and Dad to visit the home if it’s possible,” she said.
“You can also book in for a try before you buy. It’s called respite care, where the person can stay for two to four weeks sometimes.”
The fourth thing Dr Low suggested considering was understanding power of attorney rights if your parent or loved one was no longer in a position to make appropriate decisions for themselves.
Knowing your parents’ or loved one’s wishes well in advance is the best way to ensure that they are met – and the anxiety and stress of making decisions in the hospital car park is avoided.
